January 12, 2023

What happens when you start to value yourself more?

  • When you start to value yourself more, you may find that you start to see yourself in a new light.
  • You may gain a greater appreciation for who you are and what you bring to the table. 
  • You may feel more confident and empowered, and be better equipped to make  decisions that will benefit you.
  • You may also start to set boundaries for yourself and others. You may no longer tolerate disrespectful behavior from others, and you may start to stand up for yourself more often. You may also start to set limits on how much of your time and energy you are willing to invest in relationships. Setting boundaries can help you maintain a sense of self-respect and ensure that your needs are met. 
  • You may be more likely to speak up for yourself, and not be afraid to ask for what you need or want.
  • In addition, you may find yourself taking action to improve your life. You may start to focus on yourself and your goals, and take steps to make them a realityYou may become more willing to take risks and take steps that are  outside of your comfort zone.
  • And, you may just find yourself feeling more fulfilled and content with your life. When you value yourself, you may find yourself engaging more in activities that bring you joy, and building stronger relationships with those who truly value you. 

When you start to value yourself more, you can begin to 
experience a more fulfilled and meaningful life.

So how do you actually do this?

Well, let's tap into the power of asking a few questions to activate your inner knowing to respond with your soul's wisdom...

Are you ready?

  • What's been the most wonderful thing that's happened so far in 2023?
  • What would you like to be celebrating within the next few weeks or months?


If you participated in 'Set Your Past Free and Unleash Your Brilliance in 2023', then you'll know how important it is to get crystal clear on what you value... 


  • Because what you value, you'll prioritise...
  • and what you prioritise is what's important to you...
  • and when you know what's truly important to you, then you'll know what to say yes and no to...
  • and the aligned action steps to manifest what you value may stretch you outside your comfort zone but because you're fully aligned with the value of what matters to you, you'll take those scary action steps anyway.
  • and those aligned action steps result in you living your best life and unleashing your brilliance.

So my friend... what will your life look if you really value yourself and fully embody your self-worth?

  • Which action steps will you take from that place to manifest what matters most to you?
  • If you don't value yourself and you have low self-worth, you may feel unmotivated, lack confidence, and be unable to set boundaries. 
  • You may also find yourself constantly seeking validation from others and engaging in unhealthy coping mechanisms to deal with your low self-worth.

We all have our ups and downs in life.

If you’re finding yourself in a bit of a funk, or you simply like to give yourself a loving boost, then here are

4 simple, yet effective ways you can start to
value yourself more. 

Starting right now.

I wonder which of these speak to you…


  1. You can start to value yourself more by recognising and acknowledging your unique strengths and abilities.

  2. Take time to celebrate your successes and focus on the positive aspects of yourself and your life.

  3. Practice regular self-care by engaging in activities that bring you joy and nourish your soul.

  4. You can start to value yourself more by setting realistic boundaries with others and expressing your thoughts and feelings in a healthy and assertive way.

Value and Self-Worth

Knowing what you truly value and then living your life accordingly...

that isn't always so easy, right?

I was talking about this late last year with my friend and fellow Alchemist and kick-ass healer Bethany.  

That's when the idea emerged for Healing The Asking Wound.

The Asking Wound is a deep-seated fear or subconscious block that holds us back from asking for what we want or need. 

We can develop this fear from past experiences or beliefs that have been passed down from our ancestors. Healing the Asking Wound can help us to break free from these subconscious blocks and empower us to take action in our lives.

Benefits of healing the Asking Wound include:

• Increased self-confidence and self-esteem

• The ability to advocate for yourself and your needs

• A stronger sense of self-worth and self-love

• More clarity and direction in your life

• Increased motivation and inspiration to pursue your dreams and goals

Improved relationships with others and yourself

• A deeper understanding of your core values and desires

Ready to get started right away?

  • The moment you sign up you’ll start receiving the energy transmissions for this 3-part  Divine Alchemy healing series, which will start to clear the obstacles to asking and receiving what is right for YOU. You can think of these energy transmissions like high vibe frequencies that work with your Higher Self to ensure you receive the optimal clearing and upgrades that are right for you at this time.

  • And simultaneously activate the upgrades available for your growth and evolution.

So that by the time you come to our LIVE classes, you’ll be ready to receive so much more out of our time together. Plus you’ll very likely be sharing a few fun celebrations already as the energy transmissions have been weaving their magic with you.

Wishing you all the love, joy, peace, and abundance of blessings you can receive!

Joyful blessings,

Tina and Bethany

P.S. The Asking Wound is a wound of the heart that is created by not feeling safe to ask for what we need or want. It can manifest in feelings of unworthiness, self-doubt, and low self-esteem. 

Healing the Asking Wound can have a number of positive benefits. 

✅ Firstly, it can lead to increased self-confidence and self-worth, as you come to see yourself as worthy of having your needs met. 

✅ It can also lead to you feeling more comfortable and empowered to ask for what you need and want, allowing you to create more meaningful relationships and experiences in your life. 

✅ Finally, it can lead to you feeling more connected to yourself and to others, as you allow ourselves to trust in the process and be vulnerable.

If you're ready to UP your asking and receiving, then check out Healing The Asking Wound. 

If it resonates then we'll see you on the inside!

About the author 

Tina van Leuven

Tina van Leuven loves helping others find their JOY Spot in their life and business. She's a Practical Joy Alchemist helping uplifters live a purpose-fuelled, prosperous, and JOY-filled life.

Tina walks her talk when it comes to joyful living. She lives in trust with the universe, knowing that she’s in the right place at the right time, although she’ll be the first to say her ego doesn’t always agree!

As an Abundance Mindset Mentor and Joyful Soul Business Coach, as well as an international bestselling author, she knows how to help you turn off your Inner Shitty Committee, upgrade your money mindset, and align with your soul path so your business is a true expression of your divine essence.

She brings 30+ years experience of a wide variety of healing modalities and transformational tools - and that's just from this lifetime, lol

Her strength lies in her light-hearted, yet deep approach to getting to the core of what's been holding you back so you are free to seriously enjoy your life and business.

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