If You Felt Confident To
Ask For What You Really
Want and Need, What Would You Ask For?
No more compromising or settling for less than you know deep inside you deserve. No more questioning your value and worth. It's time to get clear on what you truly want and need!
If you’re ready to UP your asking and receiving game, then come join us for this potent 3 part online Divine Alchemy healing retreat - Healing The Asking Wound.
How Do You Feel About Asking For
What You Really Want and Need?
Asking for what you want and need sounds so simple.
Just ask, right?
So why can asking for what you truly want and need feel downright terrifying at times?
Especially when you're strong and used to being independent...
If you’ve ever felt uncomfortable asking for help, or asking for money,
or asking for what you want and need in a relationship…
then you’re definitely not alone.
Asking for anything at all is accompanied by risk.
With all these often unconscious expectations lurking underneath the surface, is it any wonder that asking can feel so uncomfortable?
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.”
- Anais Nin
Asking for what you want and need requires you to value yourself enough to no longer rationalise settling for less than you desire or deserve.
How would your life change if you:
- no longer undermine your self worth?
- let go of dependency on outside sources for validation or approval to ask and receive what YOU want and need?
- no longer dim or dumb down your light in case it might make others feel uncomfortable or inadequate?
- clear your unique fear combo, aka your personal blocks, triggered by asking for what you truly want and need?
- increase your capacity for receiving what you’re asking for?
If all you’ve ever dared to ask for are crumbs, or that’s all you’re used to receiving, despite asking BIG…
then it’s time to increase your allowance and energetically align with the abundance frequency of what you really want and need.
How Past Wounds Impact Present Receiving
So many of us were raised to be ‘good girls and boys’... and that seemed to require settling for whatever is handed to you and be grateful for whatever you get… and to never, ever be so bold or brash as to ask for what you actually want.
In Dutch there’s a saying that children who ask are skipped.
In other words, don’t ask if you want to receive.
And have you ever heard or said:
Well, if you don’t ask then how can I know what you want?
Do you expect me to read your mind??
Throughout our lives we are bombarded with conflicting rules, unspoken agreements, and expectations when it comes to asking.
Therefore it’s not surprising if you’ve developed a few glitches in your belief system when it comes to receiving…
After all, if you don’t feel safe to ask for what you want and need, then how likely are you to feel safe receiving?
Imagine what might happen when we come together as a group for some Divine Alchemy
Most of us have experienced a mixed bag of results with asking and receiving.
You’ve probably had your fair share of disappointments over the years, as well as celebrations.
Imagine what might happen when we come together as a group for some Divine Alchemy:
- to heal what’s held you back from asking for what you truly want and need…
- to activate your empowered asking and receiving…
- and to know and value your divine worth…
It’s time to increase your allowance and energetically align with the abundance frequency of what you really want and need by...
Knowing your worth and valuing yourself enough to never again settle for less than you deserve. If you’re running your own business, for example, then imagine feeling empowered when stating your fees for your services or time, and receiving with total ease.
Confidently and independently asking and receiving what YOU need whether that be love, joy, wealth etc.
In relationships this translates as feeling safe to ask for what makes you feel loved, cherished, and supported.
And receiving from your partner as openly as you give.
Living authentically as the brightest and highest version of yourself. You know you’re living true to yourself when everything just flows and the right opportunities and people show up at the right time, as if by magic.
The more aligned you are with YOU, the more magnetic your energy becomes, like a miracle magnet. People will comment on your luck… yet you’ll know it’s simply a matter of alignment. Parking spots in busy places, money showing up as gifts from unexpected sources, receiving upgrades when traveling, these are just a few of the fun ways your energy is asking and receiving increased abundance in real life.
What is the Asking Wound exactly?
Very simply put, it’s a set of beliefs and rules that have been passed down for many generations, encoded in our DNA, that block our capacity to ask for and receive what allows us to joyfully thrive and prosper without guilt and shame.
As I was discussing this with my dear friend, fellow Alchemist and kick-ass healer, Bethany Mitchell, the idea for this online healing retreat was born.
We both knew there was probably more to this Asking Wound than we’d uncovered...
...so Bethany consulted with Archangel Metatron and Archangel Sandalphon and channeled the following message:
"What is the asking wound exactly? This is a wound that is deeply embedded in your genetic structure, no matter your country of birth or the time in which you are living. It is a wound that dates back to the beginning and is present in some form or another in every culture's creation myths and legends. It is indeed evident in the Jewish and Christian Garden of Eden story when the humans acted without thought of consequences, without asking for more information, trying to prove that they were worthy of all the blessings that surrounded them.
The asking wound is present in all humans, even in those who appear not to have any trouble receiving or asking for what they want. Even those who appear to be wealthy and have all that they want. They too feel the guilt, shame, and fear that comes along with feeling desires, wanting more, being rejected, asking and receiving too little, receiving something that is too much, and knowing that they are not deserving.
This is the underlying wound:
the lack of deserving, the feeling unloved, the lack of self-worth, the pain of knowing that you are deeply flawed and should not be receiving the love, praise, compliments, gifts, or whatever others are trying to give you.
And, of course, all that is entangled with the idea of asking and being rejected and all of the accumulated beliefs and experiences of many lifetimes."
Clearly we’ve all had our fair share of feeling unloved, rejected, and hurt throughout our lives..
It’s all part of the human experience.
You might be aware of how these experiences led you to form conclusions that it’s not ok or safe to ask for what you want and need… and hence you settle for less than you know you deserve.
And any time you attempt to go above and beyond what you’ve allowed yourself to ask for and receive before, something happens to bring you back into your ‘comfort’ zone.
Or you may have shoved those painful experiences away and simply haven’t realised they’re the root cause of the havoc they’re wreaking in your relationships, finances, or general wellbeing.
And yet, if you take a moment to reflect on the common themes running through the challenges you’ve encountered, it might start to make sense that there's something else going on here…
Either way, if this wound isn’t healed, then like any physical wound, it’ll fester and flare up again and again until it’s been taken care of.
- It can play out as going into people pleasing mode so as not to upset anyone…
- it can cause you to you overcompensate by giving way more than you allow yourself to receive and unless that is balanced out, an undercurrent of resentment starts building up… and that energy repels the goodness and abundance you’ve been asking for.
- it can force you to question if you can be accepted for who you are or will you be judged and rejected again…
- it can make you feel like no matter what you do or don’t do, it’s never enough,
- it can create relentless pressure to have to do, do, do… making it almost impossible to relax… and if you do take time out, then your mind is still going over endless to-do lists so no real relaxing takes place… your nervous system is so used to being on alert that when that pressure is actually released, it’ll feel as if something is off or missing… and will have you scramble to get back on with it, as there’s so much to get done and not enough time…
- it can have you override divine timing and burn yourself out…
If only you felt safe to trust yourself, your inner guidance...
It's time to Heal The ASKING WOUND.
No more compromising or settling for less than you know deep inside you deserve.
No more questioning your value and worth.
To know and cherish your true worth
To listen to, and honor your inner authority and connection to the Divine and make your wellbeing a top priority.
You can’t give from an empty cup…
To shine your light and remember the wise words of Dr. Seuss, “Those who mind, don’t matter and those who matter, won’t mind.”
To confidently take a stand for what matters to you and ask for what you truly want and need.
To courageously claim the prosperity and abundance for you to thrive.
To get clear on what you truly want and need. Which might just surprise you…
To feel confident asking for what you want and need in absolutely every area of your life and business..and be completely okay with whatever response or outcome you receive… knowing you’ll receive what’s resonant with your light, your frequency…
To create empowered boundaries so you’re able to say NO to help offered that isn’t right for you or settling for people bringing their C game when you want an A game… and a whole hearted YES to what does support you.
When you heal the Asking Wound, you’re healing millennia of programming and conditioning that required believing in, and agreeing to live by, the rules of lack, scarcity, and separation.
You’re also healing the distortions imprinted and passed down through the generations that have had you question your value, beauty, and inherent worth.
And everything that has ever had you feel you had to prove your right to BE YOU.
And everything that had you swallow your words or stuff down your truth as it didn’t feel safe to express your authentic voice.
With this healed and your Empowered Asking activated, you know how to keep your well filled and you’re giving and receiving from a space of overflow.
Not from lack. Or running on empty.
If you’re ready to UP your asking and receiving game, then come join us for this potent 3 part online Divine Alchemy healing retreat.
3 sessions - 2 hours each
1, 8, and 15 February 2023 in USA
which will be
2, 9, and 16 February in Oz
That’s 6 hours of energy clearings and UPtivations - upgrades and activations rolled into one :)
Healing the Asking Wound has many benefits.
It helps you:
- to become more confident in asking for what you need
- to trust your intuition
- to become more aware of your needs and the needs of others,
- to become empowered and to create a healthier relationship with yourself and others.
- to become more open to receiving help and support
- to become more connected to your inner truth and to open up to greater possibilities in life.
It allows you to become more aware of your own worth and to let go of any shame or guilt associated with asking.
And it helps you to create more meaningful relationships with others, as you become better able to identify, express, and honor your needs.
The themes for our 3 sessions are:
Session 1: Value and Self Worth
When you don't value yourself and have low self-worth, it can lead to a variety of negative outcomes. You may feel unmotivated, lack confidence, and be unable to set boundaries. You may also find yourself constantly seeking validation from others and engaging in unhealthy coping mechanisms to deal with your low self-worth. These behaviors can lead to a vicious cycle and further diminish your self-esteem and worth.
Increased self-confidence, better relationships, improved decision-making skills... these are just a few of the benefits you'll receive from knowing your value and embodying your Self-worth. You'll know in every fibre of your being that you are absolutely lovable, exactly as you are!
Session 2: Safe To Receive
When you don't feel safe to receive, you may become overwhelmed and shut down. This is a natural response to feeling unsafe, as it is a defense mechanism to protect yourself from further harm. You might stop engaging in conversations, avoid eye contact, or even avoid the person or situation altogether. You literally shut the doors to receiving what you want and need.
Feeling safe to receive allows for better communication and mutual trust within relationships. It allows you to be vulnerable and open up to others, leading to a greater sense of self-worth.
And let's not forget it adds so much more joy and fulfilment to your life!
Session 3: Empowered Asking
When you don't ask in an empowered way, you may not get the result you want or expect. You may find that people are less likely to take you seriously, or that they may be less likely to be open to your request. Asking in an empowered way shows that you are confident in what you are asking for and that you believe in yourself.
Imagine feeling empowered and confident to ask for what you want and need... Empowered asking increases your self awareness, improves your communication, and even enhances your problem-solving/solution-finding skills.
You'll get to experience the magic of Acrabadabra as your words create the life of your dreams!
During each live session you’ll have the opportunity to receive personalised support, as well as benefit from the group amplified energy as we’re clearing the collective and personal themes related to the Asking Wound.
Ready to get started right away?
- The moment you sign up you’ll start receiving the energy transmissions for this Divine Alchemy healing series, which will start to clear the obstacles to asking and receiving what is right for YOU. You can think of these energy transmissions like high vibe frequencies that work with your Higher Self to ensure you receive the optimal clearing and upgrades that are right for you at this time.
- And simultaneously activate the upgrades available for your growth and evolution.
So that by the time you come to our LIVE classes, you’ll be ready to receive so much more out of our time together. Plus you’ll very likely be sharing a few fun celebrations already as the energy transmissions have been weaving their magic with you.
- Online Portal Access: You’re given instant access to our online portal where you’ll find the pre-class resources and a few bonus gifts…
You'll have one full year access so you can revisit the replays and continue receiving the energy transmissions anytime you feel ready to UP your asking and receiving.
- Replays with Energy Transmissions: Inside the portal you’ll also find the video and audio replays so that you'll be able to return to continue to clear and grow as you uncover more hidden programming that is stifling your abundance and ability to receive. The replays also provide you with ongoing support from the energy transmissions (they update in real time) so anytime you return to these replays, you’ll receive the next level clearings and UPtivations - upgrades and activations rolled into one. :)
- Crystal Grid Prescription Card: Custom designed for this workshop, encoded with Crystalline Soul Healing® frequencies.
- Transcripts of All 3 Sessions: Plus transcripts of our sessions transformed into a beautiful downloadable workbook, encoded with Crystalline Soul Healing® and the words are encoded with light.
- Downloadable Workbook & Templates: You’ll also receive downloadable templates and a workbook to keep track of your journey and progress. These will support you with deep integration as you embody the upgrades and get used to Empowered Asking and Receiving.
- Step-by-Step Process: The Essence Manifesting Process© to get crystal clear on what you truly want and to create clear, aligned, and practical action steps. Yep, there will be action required… and that’ll stretch you outside your comfort zone of familiarity… and that’s why you have our support during the live calls as well as during the entire duration of our retreat with the energy transmissions in the background.
- Private Community Access: Plus you’ll be invited to join us inside a private FaceBook group to share your journey with others and practice your asking and receiving skills. The doors to our private community forum open one week before our first LIVE call.
About Your Guides
Tina and Bethany met in a Quantum Human Design™ mastermind early 2022 and the moment they connected, they knew they had a divine appointment to collaborate.
Besides both being Alchemists with a passion for rewriting the story of what’s possible for humanity, they also share a deep love for transformation, healing, and activating potential. Within themselves and others.
Their combined mastery of many skills provides you with access to an abundance of practical quantum healing tools in their overflowing Alchemist Workshop.
MEET YOUR GUIDES
Tina van Leuven
Tina is a Practical Joy Alchemist helping uplifters live a purpose fuelled and JOY filled life. Tina walks her talk when it comes to joyful living. She lives in trust with the universe, knowing that she’s in the right place at the right time, although she’ll be the first to say her ego doesn’t always agree!
Her practical and light heartened approach means she’ll help you unpack your hidden blocks to joy and abundance, bringing life altering a-ha moments. She’ll show you how to turn off your Inner Shitty Committee, upgrade your money mindset, and align with your soul path so your life and business are a true expression of your abundant divine essence.
She brings 30+ years experience of powerful energy healing from around the world to her practical out-of-the-box coaching style.
MEET YOUR GUIDES
Crystalline Soul Healing®, Crystal Healing, Channeling (Angels, Galactic Beings, and others), Quantum Human Design, Gene Keys, Astrology, Energy Clearing, Energy Healing, EFT (tapping), Kabbalah
As an Intuitive Coach and Energy Healer, Bethany empowers you to strengthen your connection to Source by using your past dreams and lessons to seed your future.
She helps you find your direction and clearly see your potential and possibilities. In the process, you learn the tools to let go of your past limiting stories and write new ones that reconnect you with your life purpose and soul’s mission in this lifetime.
Bethany listens deeply to your experiences, holding space, and knowing that change and growth is possible.
Her own soul’s mission to dance between the spiritual and practical worlds has led her to learn and experiment with a variety of spiritual tools...indeed her overflowing Alchemist Workshop allows her to choose the exact right combination of tools that will work for you! She blends multiple healing modalities, her life experience, and channeled wisdom to guide you to the next level in your journey.
And… because the universe rewards action, and action is sometimes scary to take, we’re including a special EARLY BIRD BONUS mini course:
“When The Shift Hits The Fan -
Quantum Healing Tools & Integration Self-Care 101”
A $197 value!
This mini course provides you with the most effective methods for navigating change with confidence and direction. Change is inevitable, but when it happens, it often brings along stress and anxiety. ‘When The Shift Hits The Fan’ provides you with quantum healing techniques to help you to reduce these feelings and stay grounded during challenging times.
It’s the must-have Quantum Healing toolkit from our Alchemist Workshop to support your self-care journey as you expand and integrate the shifts from your energy healing sessions with ease and grace.
Yours when you sign up for "Healing the Asking Wound" before January 16, 2023!
Pricing Options for Healing the Asking Wound
One Full Year Access. One simple payment.
Get started today for only $497
One Full Year Access. 5 Easy Payments
Get started today for only $111; followed by 4 monthly payments of $111
You may be thinking...
Yes! We all carry emotional baggage with us that is best set free so as to thrive in love, money, and health.
And when you partner with your Higher Self and allow yourself to receive the blessings of the Divine through others,
as you will in our Divine Alchemy Online Healing Retreat and with the ongoing high frequency energy transmissions...
then you'll not only find the blocks to your love, money, health (or any other area in life) being cleared, you'll also find your body and energy field being prepped for receiving and sustaining the new, high vibe abundance frequencies available for you.
At Uplifters Nation we believe that our workshops are a co-creative process. As long as you show up live or catch the replay, actively participate, ask your questions, and follow through with inspired action, then success is inevitable.
Yes! Energy transmissions and UPtivations act beyond the boundaries of time or space... so they are just as powerful in a replay as they are in a live session.
You will receive all the energy transmissions, upgrades and activations through signing up (all of that kicks in the moment you join and gets your higher Self to start prioritising what needs clearing and what's ready to be activated and upgraded... and I can say from personal experience over the last few months that it is potent!).
It's like having your entire energy field, all the records and databases, your body and life receiving a divine clearing and simultaneously expanding into more of what is aligned and resonant with YOU and everything that supports you to thrive, with a whole lot more ease.
The live 2-hour “Healing the Asking Wound” calls are on three consecutive Wednesdays in February 2023 from 7:00 - 9:00 PM EST (New York, USA)*.
1 February 2023 - Session 1: Value and Self-Worth
8 February 2023 - Session 2: Safe to Receive
15 February 2023 - Session 3: Empowered Asking
7:00 - 9:00 PM Wednesday evening in New York
12:00 - 2:00 AM Thursday early morning in London
1:00 - 3:00 AM Thursday early morning in Paris
8:00 - 10:00 AM Thursday morning in Perth
*Convert the time to your time zone here.
Crystalline Soul Healing® works deeply with the soul. It is an alchemical healing Template, developed by Jamye Price, that reprograms the instructions and interactions of the DNA through your Higher Self.
It is based in an ancient Lyran methodology, which is an advanced process of multi-layered change that supports empowered transformation. This profound modality heals patterns, misinformation and trauma that inhibit your natural, loving communication of Life.
Crystalline Soul Healing® can help to:
Release physical, emotional, mental and spiritual blocks
Heal negative energies and traumas
Clear limiting belief patterns
Assimilate soul fragments and separation
Activate crystalline DNA and the pineal gland
Initiate the inherent wisdom of the human biomechanism
Transform your interaction with time and accelerate your Ascension
Integrate your Higher Self and human self into greater divine flow
Crystalline Soul Healing® refines the structure of your energy field into a stronger, clearer flow of information—your diamond crystalline field. This supports you into true healing and empowerment as you begin to navigate your life with more of your innate wisdom and Love. Bethany Mitchell is a certified Crystalline Soul Healing® practitioner.
The Essence Manifesting Process©, developed by Tina van Leuven, is a powerful tool to help you get to the essence of what you truly want to create and manifest in your life so that it’s aligned with your heart, soul, and mind. Plus it’ll provide you with crystal clarity on the next right action steps to take to ensure you’re creating what’s sustainable and deeply fulfilling.
Yes! At checkout, you may choose to pay in 5 monthly instalments of $111 each.
You receive a full year of access to the online portal so you'll have plenty of time to go through the course and experience the energy transmissions. Return as often as you'd like to take advantage of the ongoing UPtivations (energy upgrades and activations rolled into one!)...they upgrade in real time. Your one-year access begins the moment you sign up.
From Our Hearts to Yours
Our future selves are already celebrating your successes, breakthroughs, and transformations with you as you said "YES" to Healing The Asking Wound.
We are so excited to be sharing this journey with you.
From our hearts to yours, thank you and see you on the inside!