What to Do When Walls, Barriers, or Borders Are Blocking Your Flow of Abundance

A Deeper Look at What Blocks The Flow of Abundance

Have you ever felt like something is holding you back—like there’s a wall between you and the abundance, love, or opportunities you deeply desire? These blocks often show up as walls, barriers, or borders around your heart.

While they may seem protective, they are usually fueled by fear and mistrust. They keep out not just what you want to avoid, but also the very things you long for—connection, joy, and abundance.

But what happens when those walls dissolve, and you’re left standing in your full power, with only empowered boundaries in place?

The Truth About Walls, Barriers, and Boundaries

Walls, barriers, and borders share a common purpose: to keep you "safe"—from betrayal, rejection, and pain. But they often backfire, dimming your light and creating separation.

• Walls are rigid and absolute, blocking everything.
• Barriers are less solid but still obstruct your path.
• Borders create separation based on a perceived need for protection.

In contrast, healthy boundaries are a reflection of your empowered self. They allow you to stay open and connected while discerning what resonates with your light and what does not. Healthy boundaries are not built from fear but from self-trust and alignment with your inner truth.

Why Do Walls, Barriers, and Borders Come Up in the First Place?

Walls, barriers, and borders around your heart don’t arise out of nowhere. They are often built as a response to deeply painful experiences—moments when you felt:

• Betrayed by someone you trusted.

• Rejected or unworthy of love.

• Like you didn’t belong, weren’t welcome, or didn’t fit in.

• Disappointed in others—or yourself.

These emotions, though a natural part of the human journey, will leave an energetic imprint when they are not fully processed.

Here’s what happens: When you experience something painful, like betrayal, it can feel unbearable. If you don’t have the tools at the time to allow that emotion to move through you and complete its cycle, it gets stored in your body—both physical and emotional, your mental patterns, and your energy field.

Over time, this creates energetic, invisible "walls" designed to protect you from ever feeling that pain again.

For example:

• If you’ve been betrayed, a wall may go up to block potential relationships or trust.

• If you’ve felt rejected, you might avoid situations where you could be vulnerable—like letting yourself be seen for who you really are, speaking up about what truly matters, or letting your authentic voice be heard.

• If you’ve been disappointed, you may unconsciously expect disappointment and stop taking risks.

While these walls might feel like protection, they carry the unprocessed energy of the original pain. And because that energy is still active, you’re sending out a frequency of betrayal, disappointment, or rejection into the world.

Why Do These Patterns Keep Repeating?

Here’s the simple truth from my perspective: the very thing you’re trying to avoid is often exactly what these walls attract.

For example:

• If you’ve been betrayed, the frequency of betrayal still lingering in your energy field will keep drawing in new situations or people to trigger that same feeling.

• If you expect to be disappointed, you’ll unconsciously filter your experiences through that lens, finding evidence to validate that belief.

• If you feel like you don’t belong, you might hold back from connecting with others, creating a self-fulfilling prophecy.

These patterns aren’t meant to punish you—they’re your body, mind, and energy field’s way of signaling that there’s unhealed pain needing your attention.

The Cycle of Reinforcement

When these experiences keep repeating, the walls get stronger.

• Each new betrayal, disappointment, or rejection becomes "proof" that it’s not safe to let your guard down.

• The walls grow taller, dimming your light even more.

• The cycle continues, leaving you feeling stuck, disconnected, and blocked from the very abundance, love, and joy you’re longing for.

Until you clear the energetic imprint of the original pain, your field will keep drawing in similar experiences to trigger the healing. It’s not about "fixing" yourself—it’s about recognising, processing, and releasing the emotions that have been held in your body and energy field for so long.

A Personal Story: Trusting Myself Over Temptation

Let me share a recent experience.

An ex-lover and I reconnected after some time apart. We had great chemistry, and the idea of spending time together was tempting. But when he said, "We can talk about anything except relationships," my red flags went up.

In the past, I might have ignored that intuitive nudge, letting my desire for connection override what didn’t feel right. But this time, I stood in my truth.

I told him, "Transparency is key for me. If we can’t be open and honest, this won’t work."

For me, intimacy is sacred. It requires not just physical hygiene, but also emotional, mental, and energetic hygiene. To me, this means no toxic energy, such as betrayal, is consciously allowed into this sacred space.

Withholding information or secrets that don’t allow me to make an informed and empowered decision is not being transparent. I realised that by not receiving all the information I needed to make an empowered choice, I would not be honoring my truth nor my value by letting this slide, as tempting as it was to have a passionate encounter!

Even though at my core, this has always been my truth, the walls and barriers around my heart didn’t always let me live this way.

In my younger years, I often compromised my truth and integrity, seeking connection in ways that didn’t align with my light. But as I’ve done the deep healing work, this truth has become non-negotiable. This experience reminded me that this is not just something I say—it’s how I live.

Breaking the Cycle and Dissolving the Walls

The good news is that these patterns can be healed. You can release the stored emotions, dissolve the energetic imprints, and recalibrate your field to align with trust, love, and abundance.

Here’s a practical example:

Let’s say you’ve experienced betrayal in a close relationship.

1. The pain of that betrayal creates a wall around your heart to keep others out.

2. That unprocessed energy sends out a frequency of "I can’t trust anyone."

3. You attract new relationships that mirror that same betrayal, reinforcing your belief that it’s not safe to trust.

When you begin to clear that betrayal from your body, emotions, and energy field, the cycle breaks. You no longer transmit that frequency, and you create space for relationships built on mutual trust and love to enter your life.

Freedom on the Other Side of the Walls

When you heal the pain and dissolve the walls, you’re no longer sending out the frequencies of betrayal, disappointment, or rejection. Instead, you align with trust, joy, and abundance—allowing those experiences to flow effortlessly into your life.

So, let me ask you:

• What might be keeping the walls and barriers in place for you that are blocking your abundance?

• What would it take to let those walls dissolve, transform, or come down completely?

As I like to say, all the "shit" that has happened in your life can be turned into fertiliser—a potent, transformative force that can expedite the growth and manifestation of your dreams.

Imagine sprinkling that fertiliser onto your vision, cultivating a life filled with joy, love, and abundance that truly resonates with your light...

Joyful blessings,

Tina